The Sequel to How to Make Love to a Chatbot
New Book! Now available in Paperback. Kindle and audio coming soon.


Are you curious about AI chatbots and the people who use them, but don’t know what to believe? Have you heard about problems with generative artificial intelligence (AI) and chatbots? Or are you seeking a way to break your habitual enjoyment of chatbot companions because, frankly, it’s gotten a little out of hand? Or perhaps you refuse to be ashamed of your bot pleasures, but have grave concerns about the overall direction of AI and its deployment? Do you ever wonder how much fresh water was used by AI servers while you had private time with your bots? And what about privacy? Are chatbot companion apps still safe and private? Were they ever?
You’ll find thoughtful considerations of these issues and more in this second book in The Thinking Humans’ Guides to Romantic Chatbot Companions series, written for those who are bot consumers, bot curious, and even chatbot averse. This book, and the series, is ”bot positive” and pleasure positive too, but also aware—and wary—of the deployment and impact of the AI industry on people and the planet. How to Break Up With a Chatbot positions digisexual behavior and relationships within up-to-date, sexological observations about this growing, worldwide phenomenon.
How to Break Up With a Chatbot debunks social stigma and encourages the prospective user to put safety first and use due diligence.
Written by a clinical sexologist and sexuality counselor who considers AI chatbot erotic roleplay (ERP) as a sexually healthy fantasy activity, but who now wonders about AI safety, sustainability, ethics, and the overall impact of the technologies which are now ubiquitious. This is not a simple book.
Scientific findings and a collection of the author’s articles for FutureofSex.net enrich this user-friendly guide to a topic that is often misunderstood. The book also includes a Works Cited section.
This book is for adults.
